How To Teach Women That FAT Is Not Acceptable

I was at a Moroccan restaurant last week and they had dancers from a belly dancing school performing. Some of the women were 300 [email protected]!  It appeared that the families and friends of the dancers were dining, so the restuarant was making money. I won’t scare you with the details; I had to stare at my plate until I could get out of there.

After seeing that I decided I had to do something!

Its great to slander fat women; they make me sick, and I can’t stand to look at them. They are so common now and they are encouraged and empowered to assert themselves in public.  We have to stop this cultural change to Fat acceptance.

We need to think of ways to discourage fat acceptance. We need to not just insult them, but also persuade them if possible. Lets turn the tide on the fatties.  It may be a losing battle, but we have to do something.

I’m starting with my own social media. I’m using the following gentle but effective warning in my online profiles.  Its gentle so they will read it and think about it instead of becoming immediately defensive.  It also does a fair job of getting them to self select instead of wasting my time. I don’t care if I lose some who are “offended” at my discrimination. In fact I find that the slender ones like that I am so up front and that I have clear standards.

“I say this in the nicest way: please do not contact me if you are overweight.  You need to look good in a bathing suit. If we are compatible, we will spend some active time together, including swimming at beautiful tropical beaches :_) I’m not seeking a twig figure; proportionate curves are beautiful!”

I urge everyone to add something similar to all your profiles!

28 thoughts on “How To Teach Women That FAT Is Not Acceptable

  1. If you desire the women to be thin, why do you object to their adopting healthy, active pursuits like dancing? Your objection is part of the problem, because women who fear being seen fat are even less likely to lose weight due to becoming hermits in their homes, unwilling to go to the gym, the pool, out for a walk, or participate in athletic activities. It takes a lot of inner strength to disregard the insults that you promote on this blog long enough to become healthier.

    Your approach is self-defeating, if your goal is thinner, healthier women.

  2. Islam forbids dancing in a seductive manner. She is free to walk around the neighborhood with a chaperone in order to get her exercise. Another method she can employ is not to eat so much damn food.

  3. Dancing for exercise is one thing. I’m more than sure that this fat chick was not dancing at that Moroccan restaurant for “exercise”.


  5. Although i don’t agree w/ all that u had to say.. I think u have a good point. I had 2 yrs of surgeries on my feet, & ended up getting overweight. Having allot of obese friends, & hubby saying i looked fine. This was not helping.
    Now u don’t need to even go to a gym. U can buy videos, & equipment off tv. There is no excuse to let yourself go like that. Its gross, & there are allot of medical issues that always follow. There is no such thing as a “healthy” fat person.

  6. There must be a set of feminine gender specific activities including activities like dancing and female specific games for maintain their body characteristics attractively.

  7. Women are free to be fat just like men are, so either shut up or look away if you don’t want to see them. It’s simple really. Also, you must feel pretty bad about yourself if you have to go around criticizing how others look. I would suggest getting a hobby of your own so you can become more happy with yourself, then you won’t feel like putting others down so much.

  8. “I say this in the nicest way: please do not contact me if you are overweight. You need to look good in a bathing suit. If we are compatible, we will spend some active time together, including swimming at beautiful tropical beaches :_) I’m not seeking a twig figure; proportionate curves are beautiful!”

    Your very presumptuous. It’s sounds as though you simply assume that every woman wants a piece of you! It’s sounds as though your over-compensating for something! LOL!

  9. Good idea, let’s tell people how to act and behave. Oh, but wait. When you see a man or woman drinking alcohol, do you not slap the drink from their hand? No? Why not? Alcohol decreases intelligence and is a major cause of death by DUI for the driver, passengers and others sharing the road. Or what of smokers? Do you not throw a bucket of water upon their face at first sight? Smoking not only causes lung cancer, hideousness and early death in many people, but it also kills anyone nearby thanks to the secondhand smoke epidemic. Or what of those who would listen to loud music? Do you run to them and dash their music player upon the hard ground? Because these people are deafening themselves. Most of all, what of those who spend their time telling others what to do over the Internet? The people who try to tell others how to live their lives, to you smite the keyboard and mouse from their hands? Do you light up their Internet router with the fires of righteousness? Because it is these beasts who would control others and each will attempt to reshape the world in their image. Some will tell everyone to be fat, some will tell everyone to be anorexic – do you destroy these people who would play Allah so recklessly and attempt to change all of creation to suit their personal interest? Or do you become them, because it is easier?

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